Suyeon So is a key character in the webtoon Maybe Meant to Be. As a 33-year-old senior programmer, Suyeon is highly regarded in her workplace, Known for her exceptional skills in computer engineering and her leadership as the Lead of Development Team 3, she is a dedicated and ambitious professional. Despite her career success, Suyeon’s personal life has been more challenging. She was once known as the "Goddess of the Engineering Department" in college, but her romantic life remained non-existent, and she is still single in her early thirties.
Suyeon has always carried a sense of idealism about love, having developed fantasies about romance since childhood. However, as she matured, she realized that finding a suitable partner was more complicated than she had initially imagined. This led her to become increasingly disillusioned with romance, and despite her professional accomplishments, she remained single for most of her life.
Personality[]
Suyeon is a highly intelligent, driven, and pragmatic individual, excelling in her professional life and commanding respect in her field. She tends to be serious and focused, often prioritizing her career over personal relationships. However, this intensity also stems from a deeper sense of loneliness and longing for connection. As an individual who values intellect and achievement, Suyeon sometimes struggles with the idea of romantic vulnerability.
Despite her external composure, Suyeon is deeply sensitive when it comes to matters of the heart. Her romantic ideals, formed in her youth, have caused her to hold out for an ideal relationship, only to be disappointed time and again by reality. She is not easily swayed by superficial attraction and prefers deep connections. Suyeon is also highly protective of her emotions, which often makes her hesitant to open up to others.
Although she’s logical and rational in her professional life, Suyeon’s personal relationships often become more complex as she becomes emotionally involved. Her love for Sang-U Choi, despite its rocky start, marks a significant shift in her character, as she learns to let go of her past ideals and embrace a more realistic view of love.
Appearance[]
Suyeon has a tall and slender frame, with long black hair and sharp brown eyes. Her appearance is elegant yet professional, often dressed in a refined, businesslike manner. Her style is understated, preferring neutral tones and classic cuts that convey her authority and professionalism. Suyeon is always impeccably put-together, wearing minimal makeup and maintaining a poised, composed demeanor. Her calm and cool exterior masks the emotional complexities she harbors inside.
While her physical traits may not be striking at first glance, Suyeon’s confidence and intelligence make her stand out in any room. She tends to hold herself with an air of self-assurance that reflects her successful career and intellectual prowess. However, her appearance also reflects her no-nonsense attitude toward life, which sometimes makes her seem distant or unapproachable to others.
Relationships[]
Suyeon’s relationships are central to her character development in the series, especially her growing bond with Sang-U Choi.
- Sang-U Choi: The relationship between Suyeon and Sang-U evolves from a professional connection to a romantic one. Initially, Suyeon’s interactions with Sang-U are strictly related to office matters, but over time, her feelings for him begin to change. At first, she enlists Sang-U to investigate her colleague Mincheol’s sudden marriage, suspecting something fishy, but as the investigation progresses, Suyeon begins to see Sang-U in a different light. Their eventual romantic entanglement is full of misunderstandings, emotional confusion, and humor. Despite the complexity of their relationship, Suyeon and Sang-U become a couple, and their relationship continues to develop as they face both professional and personal challenges.
- Mincheol Jin: Suyeon’s relationship with Mincheol is largely professional, as he is one of her subordinates at the I.T Firm. However, she harbors feelings for him initially, believing him to be the "ideal man" and attempting to investigate his relationship status through Sang-U. While Mincheol’s sudden marriage is a shock to her, it is this event that leads Suyeon to reflect on her own misconceptions about love and relationships. She eventually comes to terms with Mincheol’s situation and steps away from her unrequited feelings for him.
Key Moments[]
- Investigation of Mincheol’s Marriage: Suyeon’s journey begins with her suspicions about Mincheol’s sudden marriage. She enlists Sang-U to investigate, only to discover that Mincheol had been hiding his romantic life. This moment sparks the beginning of Suyeon’s emotional growth as she confronts her own unrealistic ideals about relationships.
- Confession to Sang-U: After a night of drunkenness and unexpected closeness with Sang-U, Suyeon finds herself developing feelings for him. Their relationship progresses from there, and Suyeon learns to let go of her idealistic views on love and embrace the complexities of real relationships.
- First Date with Sang-U: Suyeon and Sang-U’s first official date is marked by awkwardness and a sense of uncertainty, but also by moments of genuine connection. As they navigate their feelings, they grow closer, with Suyeon learning to balance her career-driven nature with her emotional needs.
Trivia[]
- Math Olympiad Medalist: Suyeon won a silver medal in the Math Olympiad during her youth, showcasing her exceptional intellect and problem-solving abilities. This achievement is a testament to her dedication and intelligence.
- Goddess of Engineering: Suyeon was known as the "Goddess of the Engineering Department" during her college years due to her academic prowess and leadership in the field. However, her professional achievements did not translate into romantic success, leaving her single well into her thirties.
- Workaholic: Suyeon is highly committed to her work, often prioritizing her career over personal relationships. Her dedication to her job is a key part of her personality, but it also contributes to her emotional distance and difficulty forming intimate connections.
Miscellaneous[]
Suyeon’s character arc revolves around her internal struggle between her professional success and her personal desires. As she navigates the complexities of relationships and confronts her own emotional walls, Suyeon grows into a more rounded and emotionally mature individual. Her journey is a relatable one for those who have struggled to balance career and love, and her eventual relationship with Sang-U marks a significant turning point in her emotional growth.